Ughhh. Denial is not just a river in Egypt! After a month and half together (I know, it really isn't that long) the guy I've been seeing has decided that he's not gay and wants to focus on his studies and then eventually move on to dating women. It's crazy to me. He's the one that was making all of the moves when we were together, and he's the one that has dated other guys in the past (his longest relationship with a guy is 7 months... again, I know it's not long, but when you're 19 that's pretty good). I'm pretty devastated. I was never really comfortable with myself until he came along and the past month I've been the happiest I've ever been. I could handle it if it was something I did or I felt like it was something legitimate. I know he's been struggling with it, I can't hate him because he's always been upfront about being confused, but I said I was too even though it was denial. I just assumed he was in the same boat. I told him that of course I would love for it to be easier and to be able to be really happy with a woman, and he said that the difference is that I just wish it was that way and that for him it really is that way. He actually said he doesn't want people know that he "used to be gay" as if he can just switch it off. It's so frustrating, lol. I really want to try to wait it out because I do genuinely like him, but he said that the relationship is over and that we can just be really good friends from here on out. I know it's hard to get insight into the situation without knowing all the details, but it's not about "being dumped," it's just that I think he's trying to force something that isn't there...