No offense to those who are bi, but I personally don't go in for the whole BI thing. I think at some point you settle down or fall in love, and whatever gender you pick is what you are.
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kellysgotanangelsvoice |
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haha like I said alot of times bi is just a cover.
No offense to those who are bi, but I personally don't go in for the whole BI thing. I think at some point you settle down or fall in love, and whatever gender you pick is what you are. |
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kelly4me |
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im bi... im still trying to figure it all out and im most likely going to try dating both sexes until i do figure it out.
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Eaw1987 |
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Alright, thank you all for your input. i really hope I didn't start anything, I was just extremely confussed about what to do and who to ask, and why not
ask my Express family? Thank you all!!
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PoofUrGone |
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I can relate to the whole saying your bi thing from personal experience, in my case it was most definitely just a buffer zone between people thinking I was
straight and then finally admitting to myself (and others) that I was gay. One of my ex-boyfriends was "bi" and that's why we ended up breaking
up, he decided he wanted to date women. Well, he tried that and it didn't work, and needless to say... he's dating men again and starting to move out
of the bi area into admitting he's gay. He's just one of the popular jock types and he's afraid that if his friends from when he was in high school
found out they won't accept him. It's a pretty sucky situation for anyone to go through.
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kellysgotanangelsvoice |
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im bi... im still trying to figure it all out and im most likely going to try dating both sexes until i do figure it out.
Kelly4me. That really just proves my point. Until you figure it out. Meaning that someday you know you will choose one or the other. It's not that I don't think attraction to both exists b/c it does I'm sure(I wouldn't know but straight people don't know how it feels to be gay so eh...) anyway... Ithink the attraction exists to both, but EVENTUALLY(however long that is) assuming you end up with somebody, then you end up being one or the other. IT's sort of a geometry problem And let me clarify that I'm not saying it's negative to say BI in ANY way. What I'm saying is that its fine to be in between, and if your not sure then thats probably the best way to go....but eventually...I just think its one or the other. Although I'm sure you'll always find both attractive, you do choose at some point. Whether its a concious choice or just HEY I'm in love and its a boy/girl whatever.....it's still a choice in some form, or at least a subconcious declaration that your more attracted to one than the other. Or I'm wrong altogether in which case I'm also willing to say I'm an idiot.
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j119z |
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hey if you're an idiot then I am too because I feel the same way... fine say you're "bi" for now, but eventually you'll make up your
mind.
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kelly4me |
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^ yeah i will eventually... but in the mean time i have to date both sexes to figure it out
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j119z |
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you have to date both or get to
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kelly4me |
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i suppose i dont have too.... i dont know.... haha
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j119z |
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I'm just messing with you. oi vey it's not even 9am. why am I up?
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kellysgotanangelsvoice |
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Oh I'm not saying I have a problem with it Kelly4me. I don't care, you date who you want I date who I want. I'm ONLY saying that eventually there
is a choice to be made. Thats all. It wasn't an OMG you date both...ew...type of thing . Just an observation really.
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swrrt90 |
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Anyone going to college currently?
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kellysgotanangelsvoice |
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Me.
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SueyChristinafan |
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me!
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soxycoxy |
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Next year! ...Hopefully, if I get in. I should know soon.
swrrt, are you? |
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j119z |
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some days I wish I would have gone to college, some days I'm glad I didn't. To get into my job when I did, the way I did was like.. a chance that
doesn't come around too often. I love my job too and could see myself doing it for the rest of my life so I'm happy.
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swrrt90 |
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I am not currently. BUT I am going either when the 08 year starts up or the 09 year.. not sure yet. But what test did you take? The ACT or SAT? I'm
debating on them. I just want to know if you prefer one to the other. Whats everyone going for? I'm going for something in medical. Can't decide if I
want to go into the pharmaceutical or be like a radiologist or something. Ha ha.. I guess I'm bad a making big decisions. I just decided like three months
ago that I was going for sure. So yeah..
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kellysgotanangelsvoice |
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You don't have to take the SAT if you have gone or are going to community college.
I went to community college. j11 what do you do? |
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swrrt90 |
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I'm not going to community college though. Thought about it but I don't want to go to the college around here so I'm exploring other options.
Thanks for that info though
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s f a s guitar |
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Ooh I'm in college too. I just took the SAT once. I figured my scores were decent enough and I was too lazy to take it again haha.
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