agreed vonno! i don't want you guys to think that i am not happy for her! i meant that before she announced she was dating anyone, it never occurred to me that when she did date that it would be to someone already divorced. but i have no opposition to him and i'm happy for her and i know she's an adult. i wasn't saying i thought he was a bad person because he got divorced and she's being blind. that's not what i said nor what i meant.

but knowing that he's been divorced doesn't make me trust her judgment or his character any less.