well, i don't like it. but i can only speak for myself, not kelly. i hate being surprised like that. one time i was out to dinner with some friends for my birthday and i told them NOT to tell the waiters that it was my birthday...cause they sing at this particular restaurant and i really don't like that kind of thing, like seriously. and i mean, on your birthday especially i think you should respect the person's wishes. but of course they didn't. i was SO MAD, of course i pretended to enjoy it, but i kicked my friend HARD under the table, lol. i still haven't really forgiven her for it...hmph!