dirrtydjay, you just beat me! I was about to ask that same question! WHERE and WHEN did thankfully heard this sog??

I LOVE 'I hate myself for losing you'! It's just so intense and the vocals come across as "mature" (cant explain why i think that, since the lyrics are not such a mature way of seeing the situation IMO...) maybe i think the vocals are mature cause of the raw emotion in Kelly's voice.

I never liked 'You found me'. I also made myself listen to it for a few times, but that song is just not in the same league as the others. And yall keep saying that this song is "a happy song"... i just dont see it...

I know that theres alot of fans that can relate to 'You found me', but I dont feel honesty coming from this song, just cause the melody doesnt match the message of the lyrics. The melody of the song is melancolic, specially the verses. And the choruses dont sound as happy and postive as the lyrics.

I know, yall are probably thinking: " 'I hate myself for losing you' obviously has a negative message". Yes, but it feels immensivily real and honest. Better proof: Kelly was crying by the end of this song.