yep, and this song helped me realize that their divorce affected me more than I thought. My dad basically disappeared from my life afterwards. My mom told me a few years ago that at one point I asked her if he was dead and that's why I didn't get to see him anymore. So he came back in my life from about age 5 through 18. I've only seen him a couple times in the last 10 years and it's only when I initiate the contact. So I've given up, but it's definitely made me feel abandoned.